Move.

I don't know to where, but the hot sun and laid back Californian city of San Diego intrigues me. I hope my friends that live there continue to do so for a few more visits.

I must admit the 2 factors of me not leaving my city, not even my zip code: my consumer debt and my family. But I know that this is my live to live and when I take care of number 1, number 2 will handle it. I also know that I might not be able to direct myself as much as I would like but I feel a significant other could motivate me just enough. Now just to find a man, that wants to move, far far away - but not to the country! It's a large city or nothing.